Worshipping the Lord.

Son! There are two types of person. The ignorant and the Intelligent. The one who is entangled in the web of attachment ,in Me and Mine- My mother , my father, my son, my wife, my land, my money, my position-the one who is entangled in this me and mine, that jiva is of a dull nature, he is in ignorance. The second type knows that all relationships are false and of a selfish nature, he knows that attachment for the world is useless, because everything is of a momentary and temporary nature and having attachment for the momentary ids nothing but foolishness. Thus the second is free from attachment, is free from me and mine, and thus is ripe for Bhakti.
Look Son! The one Ignorant entangled in attachment of me and mine, always sins (indulges in unwanted activities), because his vision is limited and colored by his attachment. The one who is of intellect becomes free from all sins, because he uses his intellect. He is free from sins and is pure. The heart free from the mud of attachment is the one really fit for serving God, and can get engrossed in him. Ignorance is the mother of all deceit, gives birth to love and hate, and without leaving love and hate mine and thine, one cannot get engrossed in Bhakti.
Bhagvan Purushottam can only be realized by the one with pure intellect, and once he is realized, nothing is left to be achieved. God is omnipotent, so is the one who realizes him, he worships God in every way, he keeps nothing to himself.
Son! Serve God as a Servant. Have faith in him as a Friend. Treat his Leela as your own. Take his refuge sit in his lap as a Son does, Love him as the Gopis did, as a lover has an unfaltering one –pointed devotion. This is worshipping God in every way. Japa, Puja and every act of worship should be directed towards him and him only. A bhakta directs his anger, lust, greed and attachment all towards god and God only.
Son, Bhakti is the Mother of Gyana. Gyana cannot come without Bhakti. Gyana is the fruit of Bhakti only. The feelings of a Bhakta is Brahman his voice is Brahman. Earth, water, fire air and space together with all their modifications all are Brahman only. This is omnipotence. That which exists all is Vasudevamay. When the feeling of I-ness in the body vanishes, then the Gyan of the ultimate shines forth. Then wherever the mind goes, everywhere is SAMADHI.
The eating, sleeping, sitting, talking and everything a Bhakta does he does as Worship only.
Son, all that is perceived, gross or subtle, permeating and encompassing everything Lord Narayana resides. Bhakti is Love, the more it matures the more it grows young and new.
So Son! Worship the Lord, repeat his Name, the Love towards the Lotus feet of The Lord is the best. Belief in Bhakti and the Love for God is the real zist of life.
Look Son God Looks at your feelings only, looks at your intensity and loyalty. The one who takes refuge at the Lotus feet of the Lord with unalloyed devotion even one is bound to receive his grace. The nothing is left to achieve. Lord has many relationships; it is for you to choose.